well.. dear and i have come to the point when we realised our differences and it's really up to us to settle our differences. He told me a few things abt me today which he can't stand. As promised, I tried not to say anything anymore, although there r many things which i wanna say. I just dun wanna quarrel. What he says maybe right.. but i wonder if he thinks abt why i do certain things or aren't he interested to know my point of view? Guess silence seems to solve our argument. is this method of talking things out going to solve the prob? Actually this was the same painful cycle i went through the past.. and things din turn out well. Hope this vicious cycle will not repeat again...